I’ve had a bad couple of days. This is mostly what I felt like:
Blog writing was right out.
However, because I cannot shut this brain of mine off, I have been thinking about a conversation I had with a friend on Sunday. She didn’t say exactly what was going on in her life, but she did say she just couldn’t take anymore pain and suffering. She just couldn’t go on anymore. She wanted to give up and give in. I did my best to encourage her to not give up, to trust God’s process, and to get back on track. In other word, she is trying to make some changes and keeps getting knocked down.
Let’s be honest, most of our habits need to change. Especially the emotional habits that constantly put us on the edge of a cliff. That cliff you can’t see because you’re too busy making butt impressions on the couch. Habits grow neurons in our brain that settle in with their favorite treats to watch a movie and refuse to budge from that really comfy couch because you made an excellent indent where their butt goes. Habits are familiar. Habits are comfortable. Habits are safe.
Making changes is a lot like fighting a fire-breathing dragon. It’s difficult and it can be painful. I mean, after all they have that nasty habit of giggling at me when I attempt to hack my way through their hard, scaly skin. And the fire. Need I say more?
When faced with this, it is easy to want to give up. I mean after all, falling down repeatedly on your face is a painful (and embarrassing) experience. Why would any sane person keep doing something that hurts, right? If you’re not careful, this kind of thinking can give you a case of the “I Can’ts”. As in “I just can’t do this anymore.” As in “I can’t face the pain anymore.” As in “I can’t change.” As in “let’s just give up and let the dragon eat us, m’kay?” (Ok, that last didn’t technically have “I can’t” in there, but you get my point)
Yes, making changes is difficult and painful, but not impossible.
That’s right I said “NOT IMPOSSIBLE”. (I shouted that in case you didn’t hear me. You’re welcome)
It requires work, determination, sweat, blood, tears, grit, toughness and any other “You Can Do This” adjective you’d like to throw in there. If you keep at it, you’ll get there eventually. That dragon does have it’s weak spots. You just have to keep looking for them.
Because the pain and difficulties associated with change are a price worth paying to get you out of your butt-impression making half-life.
So, tell me about one of your fire-breathing dragons…